
I remember the first time someone threatened to kill me. It was my day off, so I was not in the clinic that day; a Children’s Hospital specialty group was working there instead, and after a staff member called the police, she notified me. A father had walked in saying he wanted to kill me for “taking his children away from him.” Wracking my brain as to this man’s identity, I drew a blank.
The police found him in a local park a short time later and judged him to be “harmless.” Somehow, I did not share their reassuring sentiment. I figured out who the man was, tracked down his mother, and promptly explained the situation. She provided a recent photograph so my staff could be trained to recognize him and contact the authorities the moment he entered our building. That photograph still hangs in our “Most Wanted” section of my front office, amongst other pictures which have been added. Occasionally, I request an updated picture to make sure we are keeping our office environment safe.
The second time a parent threatened my life was over the phone.
I was taking call on the weekend for a group of pediatricians. One of them had evaluated a child for a finger injury and had not quite done their due diligence. It sounded infected and in need of repair as the father described its appearance over the phone. I recommended he take his daughter to the local Emergency Room. He threatened to stab me instead. I called to warn the ER staff and then notified the other practice. The response was less than vigorous from my call partners, “you must have done something to upset him.” Their reaction astonished me; “blame the victim” is an unacceptable response to a colleague in this situation.




Dear Washington,
… There is a far more fundamental issue affecting the overall success of our healthcare system. Doctors and patients need more transparency when it comes to health care costs.