Politics in the Exam Room

An ancient maxim  of dinner party etiquette, which  I believe has been proffered  from more than one source,  is “never discuss politics, religion or sex in polite company”. In some ways, for me as a physician, entering the exam room with a patient seems to require some similar degree of discretion. But the consequences of straying outside the bounds of polite discussion in the doctor’s exam room are quite different from any awkwardness that might ensue after a social misadventure.

Dr. Henry Lee, the well-known Connecticut State forensic medicine expert likes to relate a tale of his own introduction to dinner party etiquette, which I will try to relay somewhat faithfully. His English was poor when he arrived in the U.S. and, invited to a party in which guests were seated in the traditional “boy-girl-boy-girl” arrangement, he knew he would be pressed to make conversation with the women on each side of him. A friend reassured him, “You’ll have no problem if you can just get the woman talking about herself and then all you have to do is listen politely. Simply ask  ‘Are you married?’ and then ask “Do you have any children?’. This should get things going just fine.” Armed with this strategem, Dr. Lee was seated and turned to an attractive young woman on his left and asked if she was married. She replied “No”. So of course, he went on to the next question, “Do you have any children?”. He was surprised when she reacted with a look of indignation and quickly turned her attention to the guest on her other side. Puzzled at her reaction, he surmised that he must have gotten the sequence out of order. Trying out the other way around, he turned to an older woman on his right and asked confidently if she had any children. “Three!”, she replied happily. Delighted with his progress, he then inquired if she was married. Dr. Lee says he spent the dinner conversing with his soup and salad.

I have also had exam room encounters come to grief because of sex, politics and religion, but nothing has caused me more regret than politics. I will explain.

Sex is not taboo. In fact, it is something I am expected to inquire about as part of the medical history.  A sexual history is essential if one is concerned about infectious diseases, reproductive health, domestic abuse, and even what drugs are prescribed and which are proscribed. I was taught even back in the dark ages of medical education in the 70′s that one should take a careful “non-judgmental” stance in taking a history. Students are taught to ask first, “Are you active sexually?” If the answer is yes, we ask “Do you have sex with men, women, or both?”. Then the question is asked in a way that allows the patient to discuss past behavior that he or she might be ashamed of: “In the past, did you…?”

Nonethless, if at all possible, I avoid asking about sexual activity as part of a history unless it is essential to the diagnosis. Why? Because I have only so much time to see the patient, and time spent on sex is time lost to discussing bowel habits, which is essential if you are a gastroenterologist. A few years ago it was found that women with irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) have an increased incidence of childhood abuse, emotional or otherwise. We were encouraged to add that element to our discussion about emotional factors in IBS.  I found that a colleague at the other practice in our hospital added that question to his interviews, at least for a time, because I had the pleasure of having to review the charts of several of his former patients who took offense to that line of questioning. Even if sexual abuse was an easy topic to discuss, I would not want to go there. If I did I would have become a Freudian psychiatrist. It’s tedious enough as it is, listening to detailed descriptions of stool from people who think they are suffering from a rare and unusual type of excretory syndrome, not to add to it tales of childhood trauma.  In sum, discussions of sex are appropriate in the exam room, but I avoid them because they take too much valuable time.

On the opposite end of the scale, religion is no problem because it is rarely a necessary aspect of the medical history unless it has some bearing on dietary habits. I like to know if my patient is a Hindu and follows a vegetarian diet. If my patient is a worried older Jewish woman, I like to blame her symptoms on having eaten trafe (spelling?), i.e. non-Kosher food, just to get a laugh and break the ice. But as far as I know, the Presbyterian diet is not too different from the Episcopalian, and beyond that I really have no interest. I never bring up my patient’s religion unless it is germane to our discussion, as in “Are you certain your communion wafer is gluten-free?”.  Occasionally a patient will ask me if I happen to be Jewish. When I say “Yes, although not very observant.”, they will sometimes even betray that they subscribe to an old prejudice that is as amusing as it is false: “Jews make the best doctors, you know.” I reply that good doctors come in all shapes, sizes and colors. So much for religion.

But politics in the exam room, that’s a pitfall and a booby trap that makes me wary as soon as I sense the subject is about to come up! I try to avoid politics whenever I can, because it is the biggest time-waster of all when it comes to getting through my day. It would only take three minutes per patient to set me back 30 minutes by the end of the morning, and that would be in addition to the extra 5 minutes taken up by additional unexpected complaints and reports about my patients’ jobs, families, social lives and other circumstances which are the glue that holds our relationships together in a way that simply prescribing medications cannot. Keeping on time is already a challenge I have described in my last post, and politics is yet another impediment.

Even so, politics comes up. Mostly it is because my patients want to know my political opinion. They especially want to know what I think about medical care and how our elected (and don’t forget, appointed!) officials are handling it.  Many of my patients want to discuss “Obama-care” and my attitude toward how it will affect me, although I think their concern is  how it will affect our relationship. Some of my patients want to discuss “socialized medicine”, or how care is delivered in Canada. Some just want to know who I plan to vote for, or who I think will win the Republican primary. Maybe they want to get to know me better, or maybe I am the first person they have encountered since they read the morning paper and they want to air their strong feelings about who said what.  Whatever the reason, if I allowed myself to be drawn into political discussions, my schedule would be an even greater disaster than it often is.

Suprisingly, many of my patients assume my politics are conservative because I am a doctor. Because so many doctors are Republicans they assume I am too. Many patients assume that I am fiercely opposed to socialized medicine, since surely I don’t want to be told how to practice or what I can earn. Some people even presume that I must be angry at the government laying claim to such a large share of my income.  When they bring it up, I never hesitate to tell them that I think the financing of medical care in this country is a disgrace and we should have a single-payer system.  Some people react with shock. A doctor in favor of socialized medicine?!  I confess, when I get that reaction I take a certain amount of malicious amusement in following up by a provocative statement such as medical care in Canada has a great deal to recommend it and we might be better off here if we adopted such a system.  I am especially amused at the story of the Tea Partier who held up a sign at a rally two years ago, “Government Hands off Medicare!”. For all its faults, I tell my patients, Medicare is the most generous insurance plan out there. Why not extend it to everyone? Of course, we would have to control utilization. Upon hearing that, some of my patients seem almost apoplectic.

It doesn’t much matter whether my political opinions agree or disagree with those of my patient; either way it’s a sticky wicket. Some will be particularly eager to have a discussionespecially if they find the least suggestion I share their beliefs. Who better to lend a sympathetic ear to your opinions on the absurdity of the term “death tax” than your doctor? After all, doesn’t he have  an intimate acquaintance with life and death? Who better to unburden your political prejudices to than the person who is paid and obligated to listen to your most intimate fears and anxieties about life? Surely your doctor would lend you a sympathetic ear, right?

Thus I have learned over the years that it is best to keep politics from intruding into my medical encounter, but recently I encountered a patient’s political views in a way I could not avoid. I was glancing through the letters-to-the-editor page of our local small town gazette when I came across a letter submitted by one of my patients who I have attended to for many years. He is a very pleasant, intelligent and appreciative gentleman in all respects and we have had many conversations about his career, family, hobbies and retirement pursuits. The letter was prompted by some issue about the town budget, if I recall correctly. I was dismayed to find it proceded to a reactionary and bigotted diatribe against immigrants, poor people, liberals, our President and his party, so laden with half-truths, vitriol and outright nonsense that even a Rush Limbaugh could not have concocted it! I could hardly believe it was written by my very same patient. I wondered immediately how that might affect the care I provide him in the future. Will I be less sympathetic? Will I unconciously skew my use of healthcare resources on his behalf? Will my advice regarding end-of-life issues be influenced by his views on the “right to life”?  Should I recuse myself from his care? But that would constitute a form of retaliation to someone who has entrusted me with his life, and what sort of person would I be if I only plied my skills with those I agree with? In fact, wasn’t it part of my Hippocratic oath not to be swayed by such considerations?  I have a few times cared for criminals and felt as though I was doing my duty, and they presumably havve committed far more egregious offenses than were committed by my patient.

In the end I decided to file it away and never mention I had seen the letter. But my relationship will never be quite the same, in the same way that one might be put off to find that someone we respect has committed some act that betrays  that respect. Sometimes patients find that their doctors have feet of clay, but it is a rude shock for me to learn that my patient is not all the man I thought he was. I guess this is just something else I have to accept: I have to maintain my role as a healer regardless of whether I have contempt for a patient’s substance abuse, legal problems, sexual misconduct, or abhorrent political attitudes. Somehow the last one feels uniquely difficult today.

David M. Sack, MD, is a Fellow of the American College of Physicians. He attended Harvard and Johns Hopkins Medical School. He completed his residency at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City and a gastroenterology fellowship at Beth Israel-Deaconess, which he completed in 1983. Since then he has practiced general gastroenterology at a small community hospital in Connecticut.

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